It's usually pretty much a given that a guy is going to end up making himself look like a fool in the pursuit of winning a woman's love. However, it does not have to play out that way, and you CAN end up getting her to fall in love with you, as long as you know what to do and of course, what NOT to do. So many men seem to end up making the SAME classic mistakes, and they don't even realize that they are doing it!
For most guys, they are trying what they have been taught to do and it's really not their fault. Society has a way of making men feel like they HAVE to do certain things to win a woman's love, and they are not always the best approach that you can take.
Here's how you can make a woman fall in love and NOT end up looking like a FOOL:
1. Don't brig romance into it right away.
Sure, you see it on television and in the movies. Some guy does all of these amazingly romantic things from the moment he meets a woman and it always works to make her fall in love. Well, in the real world, it does not always play out like this. You can actually make a woman feel a little uncomfortable by bring in the romance way too soon. The first few dates are more about getting to know each other and flirting, not making her fall madly in love with you.
2. Don't be the wishy washy type.
So, you get up the nerve to ask her out on a date and she asks you where you are going to take her. And you say something like, it's up to you. Well, in that moment, you just lost some points that you might have a hard time getting back with her. You have to be a little more confident and take charge and make the decisions. When you just act like the kind of guy that will let her make ALL of the decisions, you lose some of that natural attraction that a woman feels for a man.
3. DO make her feel comfortable around you.
While you should never suck up to a woman to make her fall in love, you SHOULD make her feel comfortable when she is around you. Some of the things that you need to AVOID that make a woman feel uncomfortable are: nervous body language, talking too fast, and improper eye contact. You need to be able to communicate with her that you are the kind of man that she can feel comfortable and have a GOOD time with.
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